My wife still under go chemotherapy. I feel heavy to let her alone and also my 2nd baby daughter at home without capable and reliable people to take care of her. But, what I can do. I already off for 2 months. If not offshore company, I believe I had been set out. I would not be still get my basic payment. But, because of company care and we need to focus on job while working offshore, company let me rest at home to take care family.
But, after about 1 and half month of rest, company ask for unpaid leave. I really don't mind to take as I mention to my manager before. So, I apply whole December for unpaid leave which means I willnot get any money for end of December. But, that is fair, as I not working and I need time for my poor family, wife undergo chemotherapy, get in hospital and discharge for rest for few day and admit again. No body take care my 2nd daughter who are just 1 and half years old.
My youngest baby daughter who are just 6 months old now. I already let go to baby sister to take care 24 hours. My eldest daughter is take care by my father in law and mother in law. Mother in law need to work day time. Father in law is 1 hand handicap after stroke.
But, still, my company call me up for help. They need me to come out to replace people. They already cancelled my leave even thought now time, my company really need to save money as the economy down time.
As company already give so much help, I decided to help. So, I were here.
But, thanks God for many many thing.
1st, I were ask to work on last Wednesday, 10 Dec. But, 2 days before that, I try to let my 2nd daughter under care of baby sister. She crying non stop and baby sister call me to take her back. In the same time, my colleague call me to cancel my trip to relieve him. Really thanks God for that. My wife was admitted to Hospital by 9 Dec and discharge on 13 Dec. According to Doctor, this is her 2nd last chemo. She really hope that I can stay until she finish last chemo then go to work. But, office call on 13 Dec afternoon after she discharge from hospital. Need me to relieve again. Operation change again.
I have to accept as company already help me alot. After bargaining, I was able to delay 1 day to today, 15 Dec to come out to rig to work.
God bless me again. As I know nothing and arrive here, I get information that, the rig going to finish soon. I will be back to town on the coming Wednesday or Firday, that is before my wife undergo last chemo on Saturday, 20 Dec. That means I will be able to take care 2nd daughter after that. Thanks God.
Any way, I pray for the operation really smooth and no more accident again. Hope everything okay and can go back as plan. Pray to God.
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Wednesday, July 23, 2008
wife infected uterus cancer...
after 1 month delivered a normal baby, my wife start un-normal bleeding. They though is period come but too much bleeding until she admitted to hospital. doctors not sure what is the cause and keep observe and last operation to get the sample tissue from her uterus.
i just get the lab test result and confirm Gestational choriocarcinoma tissue. means uterus cancer. i am sad about it. but, what to do. pray to God to give me strength to face all this thing. hope wife will recover soon.
i just get the lab test result and confirm Gestational choriocarcinoma tissue. means uterus cancer. i am sad about it. but, what to do. pray to God to give me strength to face all this thing. hope wife will recover soon.
Thursday, February 21, 2008
Thanks God..My 9 Month baby fall down from stair
I think I should record it down as a memory to thanks God for His miracle.
It is not happen on today, but, 1 month ago, January 08.
The way to stair is equip with a simple door to prevent baby to go in. Just a piece of plywood and got lock on it. And also, I putting a piece of sticking bar to allow the door stick together after the door been close. But that day, before I put my 9 months baby into the baby chair, I already checked that the door is close and locked properly. Then I start go for enjoy myself (playing pc game just sit near by) and let her play with nephew who is about 6 years old.
After a while, my father-in-law come back. He open the lock, open the 'door' then, he slap the door to close it. Me myself enjoy playing pc and nephew sleep at the floor. Father in law come back and not not the door, assuming the door is close properly with the slap and stick together as the sticker bar is there without lock it back. But, unfortunately, the door is not close properly. The force of slap make the door reflect back rather than stick there. (he only have 1 hand movable after hit by stroke disease)
No one aware about it. Then, accident take place. That time is about 4:30pm, week day, wife still working. My baby go with her baby chair to the door, use her hand to open it wider and fall down to the bottom of the stair. The stair is not a corner type, it is direct from 1st floor to Ground floor type. No corner at the middle. So, she only will fall from top which is 1st floor to ground floor. Non stop. Then crying. Then we aware of it.
Too late, accident already happen. Miracle happen. The baby look like no injure at all. No bloody, no much surface harm. Only keep crying.
Without waiting long, even without any outside sickness, I send her to nearby child specialist clinic. The doctor check her and found nothing. No medicine been given. Only advise us (me and wife, as I meet my wife on my way to clinic), if she got high fever or any abnormal symptom tonight, send her direct to General Hospital. Nothing have happen that night, only a bit fever.
The next day, I bring her to other child specialist clinic to check the fever. We informed doctor about what happen yesterday. Doctor did a physical checking and only give fever medicine.
As I will leave Miri on the coming Sunday, I decided to go for a brain scanning to check any damage to the brain. And yet, found nothing. After 1 month, the baby still normal. So, it is really miracle as the stair is very high, about 12 ft plus. And the baby only 9 months plus old.
As a normal person, a normal case, even a man also, it may cause serious injury. But, a 9 months old baby facing nothing serious. Only fever because of surprise.
So, only can say, thanks God for protect my daughter because of my careless. Thanks God.
It is not happen on today, but, 1 month ago, January 08.
The way to stair is equip with a simple door to prevent baby to go in. Just a piece of plywood and got lock on it. And also, I putting a piece of sticking bar to allow the door stick together after the door been close. But that day, before I put my 9 months baby into the baby chair, I already checked that the door is close and locked properly. Then I start go for enjoy myself (playing pc game just sit near by) and let her play with nephew who is about 6 years old.
After a while, my father-in-law come back. He open the lock, open the 'door' then, he slap the door to close it. Me myself enjoy playing pc and nephew sleep at the floor. Father in law come back and not not the door, assuming the door is close properly with the slap and stick together as the sticker bar is there without lock it back. But, unfortunately, the door is not close properly. The force of slap make the door reflect back rather than stick there. (he only have 1 hand movable after hit by stroke disease)
No one aware about it. Then, accident take place. That time is about 4:30pm, week day, wife still working. My baby go with her baby chair to the door, use her hand to open it wider and fall down to the bottom of the stair. The stair is not a corner type, it is direct from 1st floor to Ground floor type. No corner at the middle. So, she only will fall from top which is 1st floor to ground floor. Non stop. Then crying. Then we aware of it.
Too late, accident already happen. Miracle happen. The baby look like no injure at all. No bloody, no much surface harm. Only keep crying.
Without waiting long, even without any outside sickness, I send her to nearby child specialist clinic. The doctor check her and found nothing. No medicine been given. Only advise us (me and wife, as I meet my wife on my way to clinic), if she got high fever or any abnormal symptom tonight, send her direct to General Hospital. Nothing have happen that night, only a bit fever.
The next day, I bring her to other child specialist clinic to check the fever. We informed doctor about what happen yesterday. Doctor did a physical checking and only give fever medicine.
As I will leave Miri on the coming Sunday, I decided to go for a brain scanning to check any damage to the brain. And yet, found nothing. After 1 month, the baby still normal. So, it is really miracle as the stair is very high, about 12 ft plus. And the baby only 9 months plus old.
As a normal person, a normal case, even a man also, it may cause serious injury. But, a 9 months old baby facing nothing serious. Only fever because of surprise.
So, only can say, thanks God for protect my daughter because of my careless. Thanks God.
Friday, September 28, 2007
又工作了。
本来，以为装了NJ COM， 会写写点东西。但，不知为什么， 家人一个轮一个病到。。自己也病倒2天。。
病好了又到时间开工了。。 哎，时间真快。。
刚到船上有时忙得时间。没空没空。。。
终于， 这几天比较好一些。。
工作了一个星期，又想家了。孩子晚上不爱睡觉，太太又白天要工作。。哎哎。。。
又想不工作， 回家看孩子。。。 很希望太太不工作，能在家看孩子。直到孩子大一些。。
3个星期前，送大女儿去幼儿园。。 逼不得已，她才2岁。。 唉唉。。
开始几天，她晚上都很难睡觉。 睡一下就醒来。。唉唉。。
然后， 就生病。。
之前，有带她去那幼儿园跑一跑。。
第二天， 就放她一个人。。 那天晚上就边睡边哭。。
第3天，陪她到那儿的老师关门为止。。 晚上又哭。。
之后，就生病了。。病了2天。。拜6 和礼拜。。
拜1， 就让他睡到下午才载她去幼儿园。。。又陪她到放学。。
拜2，岳母，太太，都说， 老师投诉我一直在那儿，阻碍了他们。。要我放了孩子就走。。孩子哭是正常的。 我做不到。。 不过，大女儿不再那么在意我的存在了。。 我才逃出外去。。 逗留了一下。。听大女儿不哭，才放心离开。。还好，那晚不再边睡边哭了。。
女儿开心，我也开心。。
过了1个星期，不小心在牵她手的时候， 她反抗，把她的手扭到了。。 手不能动。。 岳母，太太，都担心。。 我也担心，但，我知道，扭到，医生也不能做什么。。因为是拉到她的茎，只有等她自己复原。。 但，岳母和太太都要我带她去看医生。。。 唉唉。。。
还好是晚上。。 没医生。。 第2天，中午，她的手还没好。。他们又唠叨了。。。。。。
我又刚好没空。。下午，我回来， 她手以会动了。。岳母和太太才停了唠叨。。。
虽然， 我也担心的，但，知道担心没用。。知道医生也不能做什么。。除非， 还是那样，第3天才会带她去看医生。。
有时，就是觉得他们很好笑。。不关什么， 都去看医生。。 医生可不是神啊！！
有时，觉得这个家真的需要我。。但，我的工作。。。
昨天，太太说，明天女儿会去另一间幼儿园，因为那间有开幕礼。。全部人去那儿。。我真的担心，担心女儿会不习惯。。会一直哭。晚上又不能睡。。唉唉。。。
我很想回家看看女儿好吗。。太太，你能不工作， 在家看孩子吗？ 这样，我就不用把2 岁的女儿送去幼儿园了。。这样，我就不用太担心了。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 能吗？？
病好了又到时间开工了。。 哎，时间真快。。
刚到船上有时忙得时间。没空没空。。。
终于， 这几天比较好一些。。
工作了一个星期，又想家了。孩子晚上不爱睡觉，太太又白天要工作。。哎哎。。。
又想不工作， 回家看孩子。。。 很希望太太不工作，能在家看孩子。直到孩子大一些。。
3个星期前，送大女儿去幼儿园。。 逼不得已，她才2岁。。 唉唉。。
开始几天，她晚上都很难睡觉。 睡一下就醒来。。唉唉。。
然后， 就生病。。
之前，有带她去那幼儿园跑一跑。。
第二天， 就放她一个人。。 那天晚上就边睡边哭。。
第3天，陪她到那儿的老师关门为止。。 晚上又哭。。
之后，就生病了。。病了2天。。拜6 和礼拜。。
拜1， 就让他睡到下午才载她去幼儿园。。。又陪她到放学。。
拜2，岳母，太太，都说， 老师投诉我一直在那儿，阻碍了他们。。要我放了孩子就走。。孩子哭是正常的。 我做不到。。 不过，大女儿不再那么在意我的存在了。。 我才逃出外去。。 逗留了一下。。听大女儿不哭，才放心离开。。还好，那晚不再边睡边哭了。。
女儿开心，我也开心。。
过了1个星期，不小心在牵她手的时候， 她反抗，把她的手扭到了。。 手不能动。。 岳母，太太，都担心。。 我也担心，但，我知道，扭到，医生也不能做什么。。因为是拉到她的茎，只有等她自己复原。。 但，岳母和太太都要我带她去看医生。。。 唉唉。。。
还好是晚上。。 没医生。。 第2天，中午，她的手还没好。。他们又唠叨了。。。。。。
我又刚好没空。。下午，我回来， 她手以会动了。。岳母和太太才停了唠叨。。。
虽然， 我也担心的，但，知道担心没用。。知道医生也不能做什么。。除非， 还是那样，第3天才会带她去看医生。。
有时，就是觉得他们很好笑。。不关什么， 都去看医生。。 医生可不是神啊！！
有时，觉得这个家真的需要我。。但，我的工作。。。
昨天，太太说，明天女儿会去另一间幼儿园，因为那间有开幕礼。。全部人去那儿。。我真的担心，担心女儿会不习惯。。会一直哭。晚上又不能睡。。唉唉。。。
我很想回家看看女儿好吗。。太太，你能不工作， 在家看孩子吗？ 这样，我就不用把2 岁的女儿送去幼儿园了。。这样，我就不用太担心了。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 能吗？？
Thursday, August 9, 2007
少奶奶。。
我一直想，女人是不是都想做少奶奶。。 怎么我太太就不喜欢呢？？ 我一直搞不懂。。
当我有了第一个女儿，她说，反正家人可以帮忙看，所以选择距续工作。。
然后，第二个女儿， 我想她会停止工作，在家看孩子。但，她还是距续工作。还是等我出了门，在海外的时候才开始去。。
家又不是不够钱。女儿的童年只有一次。。哎。。 那时，我真的很失落。。我甚至很想耻掉我这份高薪收入，回家看孩子。我真的想过。我的薪水是她的10倍。我一直想不通。
不过，我发现，她不是要赚钱，而是，舍不得离开她的朋友同事。。
我很爱她，她也很爱我。可是。。。。。。
当我有了第一个女儿，她说，反正家人可以帮忙看，所以选择距续工作。。
然后，第二个女儿， 我想她会停止工作，在家看孩子。但，她还是距续工作。还是等我出了门，在海外的时候才开始去。。
家又不是不够钱。女儿的童年只有一次。。哎。。 那时，我真的很失落。。我甚至很想耻掉我这份高薪收入，回家看孩子。我真的想过。我的薪水是她的10倍。我一直想不通。
不过，我发现，她不是要赚钱，而是，舍不得离开她的朋友同事。。
我很爱她，她也很爱我。可是。。。。。。
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
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